what we need to do if a person is taking advantage on us?

bismillahirrahmanirrahim
Allahumma solli ala saiyidina muhammad wa ala ali saiyidina muhammad

muqaddimah
sometimes when we are trying hard to make friend with others by doing kind thing towards them, serve them politely, and many more. eventually, we get doubtful that are they making fool of us?

should we
... need to feel that way?
for my advisory, you dont have to.
because it is likely vanishing our honesty(ikhlas).

check back our intention.
are we doing that to get their attention, or to get benefit from them, or hoping compliment from their toungue?

if that so. then, rise 'astaghfirullahal'azim'.
may Allah accept our deeds.

come back to Allah. just seek for mardhatillah.

but, dont we being a fool people?

no its not. you are a patient people at Allah's eye. at my eye too *heee. bcause you are at the step to avoid from being egoistic people.

other than that, you are fulfilling others wish.
in a hadith, the Prophet s.a.w. said that "we are not faithful(beriman) unless we love our brothers and sisters as we love ourselves"

give the best as you can to them.
to your sisters and brothers, parents, friends, and others.

dont we want to enter jannah?
because we can only enter the jannah once we are the faithful persons. *haaaa....

just, we need to
... being 'adil.
it means put thing to the right place.
in malay, there's a term "lurus bendul"
just following without thinking. dont be like that.

this will avoid us from being 'the fool'. use your brain actively. if still that you cannot decide, ask people whom you trust with. seek Allah's guidence.

Allah knows the best!

live to be the people who give or the people who receive?

i've heard from ustaz pahrol juoi, who is a good malaysian motivator. he said that "people who think about their responsibility is the people who like to give, but people who think only about their rights are the people who always tend to receive."

which one you want to be?

wallahu'alam :)

#RedhaAllahIsEverything

10/6/2014